My little Lila Bug turned 5 in grand style. She has never really had a big birthday party, so this was her year. She knew exactly what she wanted right down to cake flavor and napkin color. So we had a peace sign themed party at the Big Bounce, and I think it was everything she dreamed it would be. Lila is not a kid who demands attention, and I was glad to do something for her where she got to be the star.
The following Monday, which was Lila's actual birthday, we decorated her door. I couldn't wait for her to wake up. She was pretty impressed with the glittery "5". We all wore party hats at breakfast and the birthday girl got to start off the day with a big piece of cake.
It is cliche', but I can't believe Lila is already 5. I can still remember every detail of the day she was born like it happened yesterday. She was and still is our miracle baby. She has grown into quite a creative, independent and articulate little girl. She is small but fierce. When she makes up her mind to do something, there is no stopping her. She fixes her own ponytails in the morning and dresses herself for school. She loves to play restaurant, and loves to help cook and do crafts, and she loves to watch Duck Dynasty. Lila transitioned into being a Big Sister better than I ever could have imagined, and like her Aunt Jana and Nanny, she seems to be a baby person. She has natural instincts about babies. She talks calmly to them when they are crying, and if she sees they are playing with something that they shouldn't have she will offer them another toy. She is quite a thinker, and makes me laugh all the time. This is a conversation we had the other day.
Lila: Thank you, Mommy, for helping me clean my room. I will pay you.
Me: Lila, I'm your Mom. You don't have to pay me. I help you and you help me. That's the way it works.
Lila: But...I want to be paid.
I call her "the negotiator". It is really hard for her to take "no" for an answer, and she always has a counter offer (which really gets on my nerves). She has a reward chart that she puts stickers on and when she gets 25 stickers she can pick something from the dollar section at Target. The other day she comes up and says, "I only need 6 more stickers, but can I just have the cash?"
























